We're Still Alive!!

Yes, we're still alive and kicking! We've been so busy working on our other blogs that we've neglected this blog. So sorry everyone! We have two other blogs that you need to jump on over and visit! We Talk Sex Blog has been a lot of fun working on - lots of sexy content for your viewing. And our brand new blog, Sex News Daily was just publshed this week. If you like to stay on top of the current sex news, you'll definitely want to visit this blog! We hope you'll enjoy both of those new blogs.

Oh My... Forgot My Sex Blog :-(

My goodness, we've been so busy with the holidays that there's been little time left to write in our sex blog. So Sorry :-(. But maybe you've also been busy so you didn't miss it anyway....lol. After the holidays, we promise to get better at this.

Gosh, we've even neglected our own personal sex life - can't let that continue. I wonder how many of you have been letting your sex life slide because you're to busy with all the hustle and bustle of the holidays? Hopefully not as bad as us - after all, we're suppose to be the experts at this, right? :-) Okay, I confess, we aren't perfect...lol.

I've been shopping for some little sexy things to add to my lovers' stocking. I'm doing something really cute this year - thought I'd put together a bunch of edible sex stuff. So I bought matching his and hers edible undies, a can of whip cream, a jar of marachino cherries (he loves cherries), and a pint of his favorite bourbon - why bourbon?.... so that instead of him drinking it straight, I can pour it on my body and he can lick it off. It's always exciting to come up with new ideas and I guess that's what keeps our sex life so hot. I wonder what he's going to buy for me this year. Now, I have to tell you, he has quite an imagination when it comes to sex so I'm sure it's going to be something very interesting! Last year he gave me a sex coupon book that he had personally made up with my favorite things. It was really neat. My favorite was the coupon that was for a set of black satin sheets (love satin sheets), so when I gave him that one, I came home that evening to find them on the bed along with him wearing a pair of "oh so sexy black satin boxer shorts".

There is always so many new ideas that you can do to spice up your sex life. So there's never any reason to let it get dull or boring. If you run out of ideas, just get online and start surfing around for sex tips - there's literally thousands of them on here. Or buy some books (thousands of sex books out there too).

If you can't think of anything to give your lover for Christmas, just give him or her you, with a big red bow tied around you! That will probably be their most memorable gift. Of course, I'm sure they'd like the big red bow tied around your "naked" body - the gift that just keeps on giving :-).

Cheers! Caviar Donna

My Sex Articles

Ever tried writing clean sex articles? Well it's hard...lol. I have 3 different sex blogs - softcore, medium whatever, and hardcore. I usually have to write in my hardcore blog first thing in the morning when I wake up cause my mind is still dreaming everything sex - yes, I honestly do dream about sex most of the time....lol. My world revolves around sex. Wanna know why?.... I have a very sexual lover, I sell sex toys, and I write sex articles! So is there anything else going on in this world? My softcore blog usually gets the least amount of attention :-( since I write in that one at night and I'm winding down with my sexual thoughts.

Anyway, that really wasn't what I was going to write about tonight...lol. I was writing to brag a little about my articles that were chosen to be featured in Ezine articles See the article on this page.... the one that says Seduce Your Sex Senses - that was featured ...... brag, brag...lol. It's been fun writing them but oh so tough cause I have to be very selective with my words. I'm in the process of working on some others to add. Got any ideas for me to write about? I love to write and all I know is sex so I need some topics pertaining to sex to write about - come one, come all, give me some ideas.....please!

Well I'm winding down, my brain is stopping now so it must be bed time. Have a good one! Caviar Donna

Are You Having Sex Or Making Love?....

That's probably a pretty tuff question, isn't it? I wonder if anyone ever makes love anymore. Sex is so free now a days....you can do it when you want, where you want, and with whom you want. With most it doesn't require having to have feelings for the other one - just a wam bam, thank you. After all, climaxing doesn't require feelings from the heart, just the good feeling we get when our brain tells us that it feels good. And we all seem to love what feels good, at least I do.

What happened to making love? As the world started moving at a faster pace, people had to start moving faster to keep up. We changed our priorities in life to keep up with other things rather than the person we loved. We found that it was much easier to get the same good feeling from a sex quickie rather than taking the time it requires to make love. Making love means you actually have to care about the person - it takes time and it takes effort. Is there really any time for that anymore? We are all to busy. I laugh to myself when I hear people say they "make an appointment" with their lover to have sex. Is that sad? It is to me. Have other things in life become more important than spending the time it takes to make love to the person we love?

Sex is quick! Making love takes time! Sex is performed by millions every day and mostly with people that we think nothing of. The one we love is at home but we don't have (take) time to make love to them so it's easier for us to grab on to a partner and get a quickie....and again, it's because it's a quick good feel that we all love. Sad, but true.

We may want to make love with the person we truly love....we may plan it in our head, think about it all the time BUT as we continue to think about it, time passes and we again have no time and go for that sex quickie. So why do we do that? Is it really not important to show love and affection - is it that we again take the one we love for granted that they will be there all the time for when we DO have the time to make love to them. Time continues to pass - no more making love - and it's sex once again.

Are you making love or having sex?

Caviar Donna

Seduce Your Senses!....

So how does one seduce their senses, you may ask. Through seeing, hearing, feeling, smelling, and tasting the things that you love. When you want to feel sexy, you need to start by seducing all of your senses - no one else can do this for you. You become what your senses tell you so if you're feeding your senses seductive things, your brain and your body will follow. If you are having problems with a low self esteem and feel that you have no sexy qualities, stop it! Every single person can be sexy to themselves and to others if you seduce your senses to feel that way.


First let's start with seeing - look at things that are beautiful to you - a sunset, the ocean, a naked body. If you find that what you are looking at is not beautiful, then stop and look at something else.

Next is hearing - what are you listening to? Hopefully not a crying child or a complaining person, or music you hate. Listen to what sounds good to you, soothes you, and sounds peaceful to you. Nature, soft music or whatever music you love, or people that say things that you love to hear like compliments.

Feel with your finger tips - they have the most sensation. If you feel thorns on roses, then you get stuck, right? Not a good feeling - it hurts. Feel the rose petals. A persons body, your own body....Gently rub with your finger tips, caress it - seduce it - it's a sense. Love the feeling of satin, buy a gown or sheets, and rub it between your finger tips. You will be seducing your feeling sense, which can lead to you feeling sexy.

Smell - this is one of my favorites. The sense of smell is one of the #1 senses for leading to your sex drive. What smells absolutely ravishing to you? Is it the scent from a candle, perfumes, colognes, a clean body, maybe an apple pie baking. Whichever it is, keep smelling it over and over - feed the brain with that smell. If something smells bad, don't keep smelling it and complaining, get rid of it, it's not doing you any good.

Last but not least, the sense of taste. Did you know that you can eat foods that make you feel sexy? I can take a bite of a lobster tail and hooo and awww about it and feel like I am going to have an orgasm. The taste of lobster drives me wild. I seduce the taste sense. Do you have a food that you feel that way about? Maybe it's not even a food for you, maybe the taste of licking your lovers body drives your taste buds mad. Find your beautiful taste and keep seducing it.

I hope what I have written will help you to have a more fulfilled sexy self-esteem.
Enjoy, Caviar Donna

SEX AND RAINY DAYS....

Sex - rainy day? Sounds like that's the best thing to do on a rainy day, don't you think? That means I've got to get my sexual adrenaline going and see what I can come up with to make it a very romantic day. Wonder what I have hanging in my closet that I can put on to spice things up....humm. Guess I need to decide if I want to be a "hot babe" or a "romantic lover". That's what makes good sex lovers sooooo good. We work at changing things around all the time so it never gets boring. Since it's a dreary dark day, I think I'll turn out all the lights through the house and light some candles. A nice hot bubbly bath will be nice to get the juices flowing. I'm not real sure what type of music I'll put on yet since I don't know if I want it to be a romantic day or a hot erotic day so I'll have to think about that one.

I have found that with ladies, it takes us a little longer to get our minds into romance or sex, but if you get your body ready by doing some of the things I mentioned above, your mind will follow. Now with men, it's a whole different story - your mind can be anywhere, and your body seems to always be ready for sex, isn't that true guys? I know that has been my personal experience with men I have been with or talked to.

So, is it raining where you are? Don't let it spoil your day. It's a perfect day for good sex with your partner. Think of something different you can do to light his or her fire. Let us know if you have any good ideas of what you're going to do or what you did different.....we'd love to hear it.

Have a romantic day. Caviar Donna

It's A Sex Grand Opening!!!....

Hello everybody! Today is our grand opening or should we say grand publishing of our brand new sex blog. We're excited about it. Hope you'll enjoy reading our posts as much as we enjoy talking about sex. We're a couple that eat, sleep, and drink good sex. Well I mean we do a couple of other things in between but it seems like our life stays in the sex zone all the time...lol.

So you may wonder why we call ourselves the "Caviar Couple"? We like the best of the best sex! We are both excellent lovers but it didn't come overnight. We've spent years practicing (and oh hasn't that been fun). We're always learning new things. We keep sex a priority in our life so that we can keep getting better. A lot of it has come from our own natural sexual instincts, but we also have spent a lot of time in sex education; reading, studying, trying, and then teaching and offering sex advice to others. No, we don't have sex with other people, only with each other.

In our blog we'll be writing real "true" stories about our personal sexual encounters. We'll offer you tips and suggestions to help you out with your own personal sex life. If you are willing to work at it, your sexual life can be very fulfilled. But let me say it again, it doesn't come overnight. You can have a "caviar" sex life! There's nothing better.

We'll be adding to our blog every day so be sure to bookmark this page and keep coming back. If you have any questions, just ask in the comments to the postings and we'll definitely reply. Don't worry, you don't have to give us your name. We welcome any comments too, doesn't have to be a question.

See ya' tomorrow with some really hot exciting sex news! The Caviar Couple